Rosa's 40th Birthday in Greenport, NY

This summer, I spent lots of time celebrating milestones in my friends' lives. Each weekend and sometimes during the week, I was running around to different states and cities. It was really fun and also a little exhausting!

The weekend after Tara's wedding, a bunch of us headed up to Greenport, NY, which is not in the Hamptons I learned, to celebrate her 40th birthday at a "Garden Party" at a friends' house.

The owner of the house is very artistic and her garden reflects her talent and style. Lots of exotic trees, statues, fountains that would seem mismatched if seen separately, but due to the way she has designed the space they make sense together.

The inside of the house has a nautical theme and is completely white. The walls, the furniture, the carpets, etc. There are small splashes of color here and there to break it up, but the white makes the house feel clean, refreshing and summery.

From the first night, Rosa had many of us celebrating. There was a fried chicken dinner, which I missed as I had to work late and arrived after dinner on the Hampton Jitney.

During the second day, Bill, Terry and some others sat by the pool at the hotel where we were staying. It was excellent. That night was the party. Andrew and Jeff had decked out the garden with lights, lamps and tables and it looked amazing. Rosa even planned several costume changes for the evening!

We enjoyed some excellent appetizers made by Andrew with champagne and mingled with the others. Later, Andrew presented us with dinner - foie gras burgers, a chowder, and mac and cheese. It was delicious. Then, Rosa changed into costume number two.

After dinner, while most us were full of burgers and chowder and mac and cheese, there was some dancing. Jeff spun Christine around the floor and Rosa danced with her friends and eventually changed into dress number three.

A short while later, dessert appeared. One of Rosa's friends, who has a cheesecake business, brought several of her cakes for us. Andrew arranged them artfully on the table and Rosa blew out the candles while we all looked on.

At some point, the neighbors complained about the noise and we had to move the party indoors. Dancing resumed in the living room. Bill and I left after that and went back to the hotel.

In the morning, we all woke up to a power outage! Alarms were ringing and people were running around in the hallway. It lasted for an hour or so. After breakfast, we climbed into, Gladys, Terry's aging but reliable volvo station wagon, and started the drive home.